Should I Get Married?

Dear Miss Dela, I recently turned 30 and feel the pressure to get married.  I have been with my boyfriend for two years now but we have not discussed our future together.  I am happy where I am right now but at the same time I feel like maybe it’s time for my boyfriend and…

Why Do I Attract Cheaters?

Dear Miss Dela, I feel like I have the worst luck in men.  I know I trust too easily and therefore I end up getting cheated on. What can I do to prevent myself from dating another cheater? Miss Dela Q: First thing you have to ask yourself is why do you attract men that…

How to handle disappointment

Dear Miss Dela, I just wanted some advice on how to handle certain things in a relationship. I had been with my boyfriend for 2 years before we split up ( it was a mutual decision) but after a year after we broke up we bumped into each other again, got chatting again and eventually…