Haterade

We women tend to hate on each other. We criticize, judge, and insult other women mainly due to jealousy or our own insecurities. But have you ever noticed that men don’t do this? You don’t hear men calling each other names, such as bitch, whore, slut, ugly, fat, etc. Why can’t we be supportive and positive when amongst…

Did I Overstep My Boundaries?

I was in an abusive relationship for 7 months, not physical but my ex called me all kinds of nasty names. I finally got out of it thanks to support of my co-worker and we both developed strong feelings for each other. He never ever gave me a reason to not trust him. He supported…

Should I Date A Short Guy?

Dear Miss Dela, I have a male friend that is an amazing guy.  He is very respectful and a kindhearted soul. He wants to take the friendship further and be a couple. He is everything I look for in a guy but there’s one thing that is holding me back.  He is very short.  I am 5’9”…

Should I Get A DNA Test?

Dear Miss Dela, I am married with two children. Our youngest doesn’t look like me. It is definitely plausible that he’s mine but I think he looks like one of my wife’s friends. My wife visited her friends nine months before the birth of our youngest so I suspect something could have happened. I love…