Dear Miss Dela,
Hi guys, so I’ve met that guy some time ago, I really liked him. We had a nice conversation, I felt like he kinda like me too. He had to leave in the middle of the conversation after a phone call, it seemed to be important.I have his facebook account and i’d like us to know more each other but i don’t know how can i get this started ’causei’m not quite sure he remembers me, there is a lot of people in his life. The BIG problem is that he is a celebrety, i know you gonna all say “oh that’s why you like him” or “forget about it ’cause celebrities are real douchebags” or “it’s impossible you barely know him and reconnecting with him again via fb is a bad idea” ;but guys iwanna try, he is shy, polite and diferent not like all those bad famous guys. So can you help me ??
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with making the first move. Since you spoke on the phone, why not call him again or if you are nervous send him a text? Did he give you his FB name or did you search for him? If you prefer Facebook, then send him a short message.
You could say something like: “Hi (guys name), we chatted a couple of months ago on the phone. I found you on FB, how have you been?
Again, keep it short and simple.
Who cares if he is a celebrity! Celebrities are people too. I’ve met celebrities in the past, some are down-to-earth and others are total douches. Do not let someone’s social status determine whether or not you should speak to them.
You never know, you two may hit it off and end up in a relationship. Don’t sell yourself short!
Oh, thank you for the advice Dela-Q .
Actually we just had that one nice conversation we haven’t finished, i don’t have his phone number and he didn”t give his FB, i just found it cause we have many friends in common. How can i start the coversation and keep it going without freak him out ’cause i’m not really that good at chatting via internet ?!
Do not worry, you will not freak him out. The only way you can freak him out is if you tell him you are in love with him and have a shrine of his photos in your room. You can also freak him out by sending him multiple messages until he responds. Basically what I am trying to say is that if you are aggressive and obsessive, then he will be freaked out.
All you have to say is the following: Hi (guys name), how are you? I’m not sure if you remember me but we spoke on the phone a few months ago. I noticed we have mutual friends on FB, so I figured I’d send you a message.
This is just an example. As you can see, it’s not crazy or desperate. Try not to focus too much on what to say. What’s the worst that could happen? He doesn’t respond? If he doesn’t respond, you at least know that you gave it a shot and contacted him.