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Dear Miss Dela,
Sometimes my boyfriend makes me feel bad about myself.  He calls me names like stupid, lazy, and useless.  When I try to leave the relationship, he always apologizes and begs for me to forgive him.  I have repeatedly told him that I do not like him calling me names but he continues to do it.  He says I cause him to say these hurtful things to me. Is this normal in a relationship?