My relationship with my boyfriend is pretty recent (about four months in). We fell for each other really fast and ended up in a pretty crumby situation. He recently moved back to GA (we were both living in AL) and he wants me to join him. I am in limbo in terms of my current living arrangements. My belongings are at my home in AL but I really don’t want to live there (especially without him) mainly because I just hate AL, I am currently visiting with family in NY where I could stay if I really wanted to, but what I really want is to go live with him in GA.  My problem is that I brought him to GA and I got to see him extremely happy, it warmed my soul that’s how happy he was. He wanted me to stay and see the city, but I didn’t have time so I left for NY. I am afraid that in this new life of his he is going to realize that he doesn’t need/want me there, so I don’t want to make this huge commitment if that’s going to be the case.  We are also pretty bad at communicating. The reason I am posting here is because I don’t know if I should have this conversation with him. We are bad at texting and calling each other, but I feel as if that is something we need to be good at especially if we are going to be apart for a few months. But I don’t know how to bring that up without sounding pathetic or needy.  I don’t know, I just need some advice 🙁